The Siren Call Of Lady Luck

I’m a greater believer in luck, and I find the harder I work the more I have of it

 Thomas Jefferson

Whenever we get “lucky” it feels fantastic. I, personally, am grateful whenever some comes my way but it’s not something I count on having. Luck, in reality, is not as random and effortless as it seems. It actually takes a lot of hard work and effort.

While the concept of luck can be exciting, it can also be extremely damaging to us mentally and to our goals. Too often when times get tough, as they invariably do, the temptation is to bemoan the fact that you get no luck, and then give up. Or, you look at those who have achieved what you want, and write them off as just being lucky. As a result, your confidence takes a hit and you don’t even go after what you want. It is time that we all wake up and realise that luck is not something to hope for, but rather a consequence of preparation and persistent hard work.

Luck requires preparation. The only time you can get lucky without any effort at all, is by winning the lottery. In this case, you simply buy your ticket, and if your numbers come up, you win. It really is that simple. However, are you really prepared to put your life on hold in the hope that you might win lots of money, or would you rather work for it.? I know which I prefer, because I know that when you achieve something through hard work and persistent effort, you appreciate it more and the euphoria of achievement which you feel is like nothing else.

If you want to get “lucky”, here are a few key things to do;

  • Preparation. The first thing to do is to determine exactly what it is that you desire. Then, reflect on where you are right now. What are your strengths and weaknesses? What knowledge and skills do you need to achieve what you want?
  • Action. Now that you know what it is that you want, and what you need in order to achieve it, it’s time to get busy. Read, study, network or do whatever you need to do amass a level of knowledge and a skill set so strong that when you close your eyes, you can see, feel, touch and taste what you want to achieve. This visualisation is important, as it helps to make your goal feel real and within your reach. Once you’ve finished working on your skills and knowledge gaps and visualisation exercises, it’s time to take action in the direction of your goals.
  • Persistence. It’s important to understand that things will go wrong, mistakes will be made and that there will be setbacks on your journey towards your goals. The key here is to keep going. Don’t stop, or else it will be hard to get back up and start again. You have built positive momentum to this point, so you need to keep it going. The one thing which you need to do, when things go wrong is to take some time to reflect on the experience and determine what went wrong, why, and what you could do better next time when in a similar situation. Treat it as an opportunity to learn and grow.
  • Repeat. As you achieve your goals, it’s important to replace them with new, more challenging ones to keep you moving forward. Failure to do this could see you becoming comfortable and complacent, which is a big threat to your continued success.

In all honesty, this is nothing new. As you may have noticed, the formula I use to get “lucky” is the same I use to achieve my goals. It’s simply a matter of deciding what is important to you, planning and preparing effectively, and doing whatever it takes to achieve what it is that you want.

Good luck on your journeys!!

Luck is a matter of preparation meeting opportunity.

The truth about luck

“It seems the harder I work, the more luck I have”

Thomas Jefferson

We are often being misinformed and told half-truths when we read about the success of others in journals, magazines or online. All too often, we are entertained with tales of overnight success and pure luck. In the same publications or websites, however, we also find motivational articles advising us how we can achieve whatever we focus our attention and effort upon. Confusing to say the least. Are we to wait for Lady Luck to shine brightly upon us, or do we get out there and work for what we want?

We must give credit where it’s due, though, and stories of luck do make for good reading. They are heartwarming and reassuring. We start to think that maybe we will get lucky too. I enjoy a good story as much as anyone else and love reading. However, I also live in the real world and am a strong believer in hard work and consistent effort. For me, there is no other way and it stands to reason. Imagine, for example, a man named John who dreams of becoming a successful musician. He sits around at home all day, binge-watching programmes on Netflix while waiting for inspiration to strike, after which he hopes to get lucky. What are his chances of success? Pretty small, right?! Now imagine John version 2, in which he is more proactive. John spends his day writing songs, practicing, performing in bars and clubs, putting some examples of his work on Youtube and networking online and in person. It goes without saying that Version 2, the version that works hard and doesn’t give up easily, will have the higher chance of becoming successful.

The truth is that when we work hard on our ourselves, our passions and our dreams, we stand a higher chance of finding ourselves in the right place at the right time, surrounded by the right people, after which we can achieve success in our chosen arena. There is no such thing as an overnight success or pure luck. The uncomfortable truth is that persistence and continuous hard work are the keys which will open the door to achievement and success. There is no shortcut. You need to work hard and be patient. Believe that, if you are doing everything you possibly can, the doors will open and your time will come.

“Even if you’re on the right track, you’ll just get run over if you just sit there”

Will Rogers